However, if the man doesn’t recognize this transformation or doesn’t want to then he will respond negatively to the woman and make her feel silly and even more less confident about herself. If the lover recognizes that the woman is going to go through a transformation that will make her into her own older woman, from daughter to woman then their relationship will be successful. The second one is “Marrying “Daddy” which is the type of relationship where women seek for older men wanting to find the father figure they never had. The first one is called “The multi-faceted arena of relationships” this is the type of relationships where women who don’t have a sense of validation for themselves tend to look for it by having sex with men until they think they found the “right” one that makes them feel accepted.
Moreover, Kortosch explains three types of love relationships that adult women would have if they experienced the emotional absence of a father. Hence, making it more difficult for the woman with low self-esteem to overcome obstacles throughout her life. However, the woman who lacked of someone to assure her self-worth will have a low self-esteem.
Therefore a woman who was raised having a positive relationship with her father will be self-confident. She confirms that a girl sees her self-worth reflected in a father’s behavior towards her. According to a paper named “ Fatherless Women: What Happens to the Adult Woman who was Raised Without her Father” By Gabriella Kortsch, Ph.D. Not receiving the adequate nurturing and information of a father will lead a daughter to grow into an insecure woman. Although, if daughters cannot acquire this information and nurturing from their fathers due to their absence then they will fail to cultivate healthy relationships leading them to develop negative characteristics. This is how a daughter would have information in order to be able to look for their ideal man in the future. A father also has the responsibility of advising their daughters about how men are, what they value, how they get to respect women and so on. However, if fathers do not provide with this type of nurturing then the daughters will have grief and will search for the missing father’s love somewhere else. Tom Jordan and his wife whose professions are in the field of psychology: states that fathers need to nurture their daughters in order for them to have a secure sense of themselves as individuals and as desirable women. A blog that was posted in website “Love-Life Learning Center” created by Dr. Girls need to be taught by their father about men so when they grow up to women, they would be able to acquire healthy relationships. Therefore if a girl does not receive this during her childhood development, when she grows older she will have difficulties with her personality by being insecure, having low self- esteem and being unable to recognize her self-worth. Fathers also are essential to provide with a sense of what self-control and teaches it to girls. This different type of focus has an effect on the girl’s ability to manage emotions, intelligence and academic achievement. They focus more on teamwork and competitiveness. Fathers are essential for girls in their child development because they provide with a different type of nurturing. According to the article “Growing Up Without A Father: The Impact On Girls and Women.” By Bravada Garrett-Akinsanya. The benefits that a woman misses by the emotional absence of a father in her childhood are management of emotions, encouragement of risk taking, competition and more. Women are likely to have unhealthy love relationships due to insecurity: caused by the emotional absence of a father throughout childhood. Research shows that women are specifically damaged in their ability to have healthy love relationships due to the absence of their father at some point in their life. This is the case with women who grew up with the emotional absence of their father. When the children’s personality is affected negatively, their ability to achieve happiness diminishes. The effects occur in the children’s personality, which could often be negative such as having: low self-esteem, lack of ability to socialize, inability to maintain relationships and so on. All of these reasons have their own effects on children.
There are many reasons for parents not to be present in a child’s growth, whether its due to death, an illness, divorce, or lack of time due to their jobs. Growing up without a parent can negatively affect a child’s ability to achieve happiness in their lives.
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